let your wife do it for you, she will find a way or another to spice it for u. or, if you are a cordon bleu, do some mixture like :
dates, milk and honey.
combine dates, milk and honey in a blender, blend till it get well mixed, serve glassed.
Just for you (one person) 10 ripe dates, half cup of milk (onalait because no texture on it), a spoon soup of honey.
Very rich, delight the light my bro.